Relax, Relate, Release

She’s Monique got me a coloring book because she said I need to learn how to relax. It’s Kelliebrew Black Magic Adult Coloring Book Series Vol. 1 @kelliebrew I flipped it open and started coloring the first illustration that spoke to me. My goddaughter saw what I was doing and was impressed. Then she had Read More …

Running Water

I arose this morning and immediately went to use the bathroom Afterwards, I swiftly walked to the sink Turned the faucet on to wash my hands, I thought I was on autopilot But my mind wanted to involuntarily think And…it occurred to me to be thankful for running water I’ve been in a phase for Read More …

A Little Tenderness

I realize that you may think I have it altogetherI realize that you may think I’m as firm as the rock of Gibraltar Do you know that daily I feel like I’ve been sacrificed on the altar? I get that you may see all that I take on and handle,And I get that you think Read More …

Abnormally Normal

When I was a teenager, and I would have face to face conversations I used to imagine slapping the face of the person that was speaking to me. I don’t know why or where that came from, but it was a frequent thing. This fantasy was happening with my besties, not my enemies! It should Read More …

Close to the Edge

Hey SoSheLites! Lawdhavemercy, this past year has been a doozy! I have gone through some serious mental obstacles. I swear it’s been a challenge trying to navigate through a range of feelings such as: fear, depression, isolation, anger, despair, grief, malaise, and manic bursts of energy spent working on projects to stay busy and offer Read More …

Relation Ship

When you take a ride on a relation ship there are many experiences and different ways to define The L Word.  But, when that trip has come to an end what are some ways you know it’s done? Are you prepared to be alone? Will you forget all the things that they were to you?  Do Read More …

Let’s All Fast

It’s been two days since I cooked a meal for my family. The savages are starting to notice. Why do they expect meals every day?!? I don’t wanna! I think it’s time for a fast

I don’t want to “mom”

Throw the whole kid away! These children of mine are going to be the death of me. I’z tired, boss. I don’t want to “mom” anymore.  I’m just going to change my name and not tell anyone, oh and disappear for good measure. Continue reading here, Tired, Boss

Hello, SoSheLites!

So y’all know I’m new to this blogging and sharing shi…stuff.  The long home page with all that scrolling was getting to me.  So, I took some time to learn  a little bit more about blogging.   I did a little bit of clean up and organizing to make navigating and reading the content a little Read More …

Alone In A Crowded Room

Have you ever been in a room full of people and felt entirely alone?  You ever find yourself engaging in conversation, making eye contact, and even laughing along with the jokes or playing the games but feel so far removed from your current reality? There’s that part of you that is happy to be there Read More …