Procrastination, My Unexpected Talent

I had 2 weeks to complete a project that I didn’t want to do at all. (I’m not going to pretend like I haven’t been handling tasks in the same manner I’m about to lay out). Lately, anytime there’s a major project to do at work, no matter easy or hard, I procrastinate. Let me Read More …

Carpet & Drapes

Y’all! The other day I was taking a shower and in the shower I like to track my workout progress according on how hard I have to do a standing crunch to look down and see my lady bits…ya know, my nethers. So this particular time, I was super excited because I didn’t have to Read More …

Get Up to Get Down

Peopling Again

My high school reunion is next weekend. *exhales deeply* It seemed like a good idea at the time to sign up to attend when I paid my money. I really do like my classmates, but see, I just came off a trip for work where I had to “people”. That took a lot of energy Read More …

No “Peopling”

All Over the Place

Yeah…you see that right there? That’s me. That’s my life. I am all over the place. I have so many different roles every day, and it’s taking a toll. I honestly don’t know if I’m coming or going, or if I’m getting what I need done accomplished. I have REFUSED to make a list of Read More …

Soft Space to Land

Children need a soft safe space to land. Especially these black teenagers and young adults. Kids in general think they know every damn thing and have all the answers when they haven’t experienced real-world grown folk hardships. So, through their bright clear lenses their view of their self out in the world is that everything Read More …

Abnormally Normal

When I was a teenager, and I would have face to face conversations I used to imagine slapping the face of the person that was speaking to me. I don’t know why or where that came from, but it was a frequent thing. This fantasy was happening with my besties, not my enemies! It should Read More …

Alone In A Crowded Room

Have you ever been in a room full of people and felt entirely alone?  You ever find yourself engaging in conversation, making eye contact, and even laughing along with the jokes or playing the games but feel so far removed from your current reality? There’s that part of you that is happy to be there Read More …